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What? Iām not saying you have cry on her shoulders about your problems Iām saying that people like and feel good about themselves when they help other people especially whamen (b/c maternal instinct). Thus they will associate this feel good feelings with you and hang out with you more.
Its definetly way more complicated than that and impossible for me to try to explain it, but the basics of getting a girl is be a man, pay for shit, be assertive (but not a douche), donāt be clingy and lick her boots, let her come to you, and work out (dem abs boi) (OPTIONAL)
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Ok bro, Iāll trust you
I have no life anywayā¦ youāre probs right
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āHey, Iād always wanted to get into Magic! You mind teaching me?ā
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Eh, thatās a creepy way of saying it. Its really hard to tell @epicflygon what to say exactly without knowing every detail of his school including social hierarchies and relationships (not necessarily romantic). For example what if he is known around school as a shut-in or something. If the girl is actually nice she will still talk to him, but definitely not in front of all her friends if she wants to maintain some kind of social reputation. Or it could be the opposite or something different entirely.
There a lot of complicated things surrounding this that it would be impossible for me to give him an exact script. Most of the success comes from boldness and common sense for the situation.
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I am sorry, but I do not notice the bad grammar here.
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I know that I lot of her friends will be with her until they leave school. But I canāt tell about others unless I stalk herā¦ And Iām not going to do that.
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I would suggest finding an excuse in school to be around her and then try to subtly lead your conversation with her towards Magic and then be like āOMG, I totes did not know you played, I watch a friendās matches sometimes and it seems supa interesting, but Iām too dumb to know how to play (sigh)ā and then she, hopefully being a nice girl offers to teach you and now you guys hang out both in and outside class. You should probably learn how to play the game before hand tho so when she teaches you you can make it seem like she is a great teacher and make her feel proud.
Also the part where I called you super dumb, I just said that because some girls think shitting on yourself is funny or cool, but you have to scout the situation for youself.
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I canāt really say that I didnāt know she played itā¦ I kinda said hi to her when she was playing it in the hobby store.
also sadly we arenāt in the same class (but in the same year or grade for you Americans)
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Well that makes things different. How extensively have you talked to her and what was the general state of her response? Were they happy, indifferent, annoyed, short, long, interested?
Also, i am writing this from Antartica, so I donāt know what you mean by Americans?
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I havent talked to her this school year (out side of some brief encounters) but I have talked to her through 8 years of primary.
I think itās mostly happy when we talk, hard to find her in a bad mood.
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Does she seem interested in talking to you or does she talk to you like someone she sees on the bus from time to time?
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we kinda just say hi, Iām sure I can talk for her longer but I can only say hi cause generally I have to leave for class.
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If she seems interested you can definitely talk to her for longer. Just try to find her at time and place where everything isnāt so hurried. And try to get more into her life by bringing up Magic and such. I am observing two things so far:
One, you are a very shy person. I suspect that you have had opportunities to talk to her, but you are too scared of looking like an idiot.
Two, this girl isā¦hmm, donāt know how to describe it, but I would say lost.
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Yeah Iām a very shy and introverted person, I generally take any chance to escape from a conversationā¦ Surprisingly there is a kid in my class who is more mute than zero in holes. (obviously a lot more mute than me so Iām not the worst off)
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Then the biggest problem in this whole thing is you. Unless this girl is one in a billion ( and sheās probably not), you will have a hard time getting any girl if you are not willing to talk to them. I canāt really recommend any way to get rid of that mainly because it is something you have to personally get rid of yourself. You will have to reach a point where you either want to succeed in life and put your self out there for better or worse for your career and your love or you retreat to reclusiveness and hide in the shadows forever never knowing the glory and danger that is the light.
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I will have to overcome my shyness eventually.
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Yep, I had to do it. I will say this though, it wonāt happen by itself. I like to think even the most extreme introverts have party animals inside just like the rest of us. The only difference is they are too scared of other peopleās judgement to let it loose, but there will come a day where you just wonāt have enough energy to care anymore and at that point you will either just stop caring or you will just never leave your momās house, I hope your case will be the former.
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Replace the makantor with select then itās pretty factual.
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