I think its more dependent on what exactly is being forced upon the player. For example if my wife tries to manipulates me by rewarding me for doing dishes and work around the house, I don’t think most people would be concerned, but if she attempts to manipulate me by getting me to buy her expensive jewelry then some people would call that a gold digger (although she would never do that). In any online game some form of control by the managers must be used as is the case for real world government, the real concern is what that form of control is promoting.
Also, wouldn’t you call rewarding someone for playing a certain playstyle a form of control since it punishes people who don’t play the preferred playstyle?
