I’ve actually run into this more often than I’m used to, recently. I’ve been here since beta and, initially, it was maybe the friendliest you could possibly imagine a community being with pretty much only the emotes and preset phrases. Virtually every match began with “Hello” and “GLHF”. I was usually slow on the draw so I was responding most of the time, but occasionally I was able to send my happy wishes first. As the seasons went on those things dropped off a little bit each month, and I do mean a little bit, I’d say it was hardly noticeable until probably Ancient Bonds. I don’t think there’s any specific reason why it seemed to ramp up around that time, but I started getting the same type of interaction as what you experienced.
I generally accept all friend requests, but now I think I may be a bit pickier. The one today that made me think about not accepting every incoming request was unlike most, in that it didn’t follow a match where I dominated the entire time or one where I topdecked a win where I otherwise would’ve lost. This was a relatively normal match that I won with probably 15 health left on my general, and the homophobic insult I received afterward only pointed out my use of a single card. I was taken particularly aback since this came from a person using a deck that I would imagine receives a lot of these comments and maybe even enjoys making people mad, since the deck type was a part of their username.
Anyway, I just don’t get it. After you’ve played any type of competitive game for any measurable amount of time, you experience every kind of outcome; wins and losses by narrow and wide margins. And in a game like this with the element of randomness in card draw? I just can’t see getting so angry at the opposition for the things they did within the confines of the gameplay itself. I don’t flood people with mocking emotes, though that’s something I’m seeing more of as well, so I haven’t done anything to anyone personally…what makes these people cross over a line of attacking the individual who simply beat them? Or got beaten by them in the case of the mocking emotes!
The good Dr. Phoenix has the right idea.