How about listing order of interactions?
(I think I got this the order for this right)
Attacker, attacks and deals damage to defender
Defender, retaliates, deal damage to attacker
Defender activates on-hit effects, if any
Attacker activates on-hit effects, if any
Defender, dies, if hp is 0
Defender triggers dying wish, if any
Attacker dies, if hp is 0
Attacker triggers dying wish, if any
2 Aymara engages in combat, defending Aymara would die and trigger dying wish BEFORE the attacking Aymara's dying wish. Something worth watching out for.
Note: I put "Minion combat" because I'm aware of a few other odd interactions. Generals can kill each other simultaneously. Theres also stuff like Spinecleaver and White Asp, which I don't remember well enough.